When considering bringing someone new into the scene, ask yourself several questions:
1. Can this person keep their BDSM encounters a secret, and not blab it all over the office/school/neighborhood?
a. Even if they get drunk?
b. Even if they have a bad relationship experience?
2. Will this person benefit from a BDSM environment?
3. Is this person already leaning in the kink direction?
a. If not, why should you even risk bringing them in?
4. Are they intellectually open-minded enough to approach a BDSM environment (or will they have the mindset of 'I wanna look at the freaks')?
5. Are they emotionally stable and prepared for an environment (and possible relationship) that is outside the social norms?
Monday, February 8, 2010
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