When considering bringing someone new into the scene, ask yourself several questions:
1. Can this person keep their BDSM encounters a secret, and not blab it all over the office/school/neighborhood?
a. Even if they get drunk?
b. Even if they have a bad relationship experience?
2. Will this person benefit from a BDSM environment?
3. Is this person already leaning in the kink direction?
a. If not, why should you even risk bringing them in?
4. Are they intellectually open-minded enough to approach a BDSM environment (or will they have the mindset of 'I wanna look at the freaks')?
5. Are they emotionally stable and prepared for an environment (and possible relationship) that is outside the social norms?
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Dear Fetish Noir,
Thank you all for the help and support you members gave me, you along with several other members of the kink community (Mistress Daliha and the Jade Leather Family, etc.) have all helped out with support for me and it truly shows how we are all a family and network of support. It also shows how menti's can also help a mentor out. Now that the Month of February has past, I look forward to jumping back in to the scene at a steady good pace. Currently I am no longer on a coach but in a room on a good deal. During this down time I met a Sir that I became contracted to and also a new slave who skills as a lawyer and new slave will be of great benefit and leadership. See you all at the next event or in passing.
Luke Jayden
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