Well good evening my follow deviants. Reading the last two post about things to think about the person you are bringing into the scene and the social pitfalls of the gossip had me think back to a situation that I recently encountered at a recent event. In the situation, two people that have been brought to play with us for the first time had approached me.
Persona A and Persona B (I shall not use names) had found me drifting about in a pleasant haze (Why wouldn't I be I just saw a delightfully kinky show.) Anyways they were very upset as it seems that some have decided not to play with them (They were very willing and very sober.)
The reason: the reputation of the person that brought them to our playground for the first time. Due to Persona C's actions, his/her reputation had unfortunately rubbed off on our new comers.
Isn't it upsetting to be welcomed to a new experience full of all the things that you've only fantasize about only to get locked out at the gate because "You are good friends with So-an-So you must be like them and you most likely will act like them" or "You're going to being So-an-So with you to play with us and we don't want to play with him/her."
So what could else could I do but say to them "You'll have to let your actions show people who you are. If the doms don't want to play with you, you can't do nothing about that. Don't abandon your friend, but don't let his/her's actions ruin your fun"
As they left upset that made me think about the impact of being who we are where we are at. In this scene where we celebrate and explore our passions. Everyone will eventually meet everyone and it's not always going to be hugs and kisses.
It's our reputations and actions that can and will help or hurt the people we bring into the scene. It is easier to trust the friend of a positively reputed person, but we have to remember that in case that it is the opposite situation. That people, will reveal the quality of their character by their actions and we should try not the paint them with the same brush strokes as we have other people.
What we do just doesn't affect us. It's a chain reaction that affects our friends (both vanilla and chocolate covered) family and loves ones. So It's a good idea to remember the Golden Rule. Even if you don't think no one's watching...trust me someone usually is. Just because someone has given you permission to make them bleed doesn't have to make you a monster. Just something to think about this relaxing Friday night.
With Love and Lust,
From the man of a thousand Kinks,
The Delightfully Decadent Xeno
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